How to Use a Dildo​s

So, you’ve got a dildo, or you want to buy one. Maybe it’s your first rodeo, or perhaps you’re a seasoned rider looking to up your game. Either way, welcome to the party! Using a dildo should be fun, not intimidating—think of it like learning to dance, but with fewer awkward steps and more orgasms. Here’s how to make the most of your new BFF (Best F*cking Friend).

 

1. Get to Know Your New Buddy

Before you dive in (literally), take a sec to inspect your dildo. Is it silicone, glass, or something else? Does it vibrate, or is it more of a "classic" model? Read the instructions (yes, really)—some materials need special lube or cleaning care. Treat it like a new pet: love it, clean it, and never ignore its needs.

pearlsvibe -  K25 Black Big Dick 3-in-1 Telescopic Swinging Vibrating Dildo

K25 Black Big Dick 3-in-1 Telescopic Swinging Vibrating Silicone Dildo

 

2. Lube: Your Wingman

Repeat after us: Lube is life. Even if you’re naturally, ahem, well-prepared, lube makes everything smoother, comfier, and way more enjoyable. Water-based is usually the safest bet (especially for silicone toys), but if you’re feeling fancy, experiment with hybrids or oils (just check compatibility first).

pearlsvibe -  Pearlsvibe Water Base Lubrication

Pearlsvibe Water Base Lubrication

 

3. Warm-Up: Don’t Skip Leg Day (or Any Other Day)

Just like you wouldn’t sprint before stretching, don’t rush into dildo domination. Start with fingers, foreplay, or a vibe to get things heated up. Your body will thank you—and so will your enjoyment levels.

4. Positions: Mix It Up Like a Cocktail

Dildos are versatile AF. Want to ride? Lie back and take control. Prefer to let the toy do the work? Prop it on a pillow or stick it to a wall (suction cups = magic). Missionary, doggy, sideways pretzel—whatever floats your boat. The only wrong way is the one that doesn’t feel good.

8.5 Inches Heating Swinging Thrusting Dildo Vibrator

5. Depth & Speed: Find Your Groove

Not all heroes thrust at full speed. Start slow, experiment with angles, and adjust depth to your comfort. Some like it deep; others prefer teasing the entrance. Listen to your body—it’s smarter than any instruction manual.

6. Clean Up: Don’t Be a Gross Roommate

Post-fun cleanup is non-negotiable. Wash your toy with warm water and mild soap (or a toy cleaner). Store it somewhere dry (not your sock drawer… unless you’re into that). Pro tip: Keep a microfiber cloth or dedicated toy bag to avoid dust bunnies hitching a ride.

pearlsvibe -  Pearlsvibe 9 Vibrating 3 Telescoping Swing Realistic Dildo Vibrator 8.86 Inch

Telescoping Swing Realistic Dildo Vibrator 8.86 Inch

7. Explore & Enjoy

Dildos aren’t just for solo play—bring them into partner sex for extra fun. Try double stimulation, or let your partner take control. The possibilities are endless, and the only rule is: Have a damn good time.

So go forth, conquer, and remember: Confidence is the sexiest accessory. Happy playing! 🎉